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Sunday, April 12, 2020

Happy advice from a great humanist


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  1. Good advice. And isn't it the case that the experience of happiness can be more acute when surrounded by moments of difficulty? Maybe that's incentive enough to be more perceptive.

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    1. I think the happiest moments of my life have almost always come amidst some difficulty, or after recovery from illness, or while coming to terms with disappointment in one form or another. Seems like we're wired for resilience, geared for amelioration. Understanding that about ourselves ought to make us more perceptive. But (as Margaret Renkl points out in her new column, above) we do also have a tendency to slide back into "everydayness" and forgetfulness. We've got to keep reminding ourselves to pay attention and appreciate life's gifts.

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    2. There does seem to be an added sweetness to happy moments when surrounded by hardship. The quote above is a good reminder to cherish those moments and really be present when they are occurring. I don't want "everydayness" to cause me to not notice a good moment or not appreciate it to its fullest.

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  2. I agree, I always notice when I am happy after I have been depressed for a long time. It just seems a lot more prevalent to me in those times

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